Sunday, March 25, 2007

Wishes, Dreams & Miracles

Dear Blogger Family & Friends,

Heartfelt greetings and BIG HUG to one and all. A special warm welcome to those of you visiting The Pink Crusader blog spot for the first time. We hope you like what you see, and will continue to stop by on a weekly basis! The more, the merrier, so keep spreading the good word as we help raise awareness and promote well-being among breast cancer survivors and the community at large!

When you walk through a storm
Keep your chin up high
And don't be afraid of the dark.
At he end of the storm
Is a golden sky
And the sweet silver song of a lark.

Walk on through the wind,
Walk on through the rain,
Though your dreams be tossed and blown.
Walk on, walk on
With hope in your heart
And you'll never walk alone,
You'll never walk alone.

Song: "You'll Never Walk Alone" from Carousel
Lyrics:Rodgers & Hammerstein

Choosing a blog topic each week can sometimes be a daunting process. It involves reflecting on all the issues, events and encounters that influenced my life in the past seven days. If I've had a good week.....the words come much easier. However when things go bonkers, then I need to count to ten before I let loose. I choose my words carefully and give strong consideration to all who enter this space. You are most welcome to agree or disagree, and I invite your written comments at any time.

Having said that, I can safely tell you that this week has been somewhat turbulent....not only for myself, and Elizabeth Edwards, but for several of my fellow survivors whose lives have been profoundly challenged, yet again, by the cancer monster. While they are facing difficult times with an uncertain outcome, they remain brave, cheerful and full of hope, asking for nothing more than our prayers and God's blessing. They are not alone. We are all in their corner, cheering them on through their metastatic set-backs and onward to a recovery just short of a miracle.

Who couldn't use a pocketful of miracles? I'd settle for just one if it were mine for the asking and the taking. I admit that sometimes my imagination can get the best of me as I walk the fine line between wishes, dreams and miracles. If I had a magic lamp and could make just one wish come true, it would not be for love, money or a size 16-inch waist. Instead, I would take my one wish and ask for a better, kinder and peaceful world, where everyone was healthy, content and safe.

In reality, however, there is no time to whine about things beyond my control.....It is important to stay grounded, keep the fantasies in check, and look to obtain the impossible through more conventional means, especially due to the shortage of genies in a bottle (smile). But for now, I will wish for the impossible.....dream of the unobtainable.......and pray for small miracles. My friends (Janice, Argelia, Angie, Julia M., Julia K., and Julie G.), are counting on it, so please keep them in your thoughts and prayers.

Moving on.....This week we have the pleasure of sharing a poem written by Andrea Scatuccio, and submitted by fellow Rosebud II member, Penny. As the saying goes, "Hope Floats." This poem is a wonderful reminder that we should never give up on ourselves or each other. Thank you both for your contributions to the Pink Crusader.

BREAST CANCER
If you allow,
it will consume you
take you in its grasp
try to invade you, right down to your core
until you cry out in anguish.
You must remember you are stronger
you will not allow it to possess you
you will control it
break its evil hold upon you
remove its deadly grasp.
You, my friend, have the key
you have those to lift you high
to hold your trembling hand
making you reach higher that you ever thought possible.
You realize how much you've gained
more importantly, to know self-respect
accepting your limitations
setting your own personal goals and beating the odds.
See, you've been chosen
no one better to fight this battle.
And with the help of those around you,
you will stride toward winning
letting the darkness stand behind you.
you will stride toward winning
letting the darkness stand behind you.
Stand proud and strong,
realize your dreams
find your inner beauty and make it shine
help those beside you along this journey
to rely on, to confide in, to understand.
We have each other
to share our heartbreaks and triumphs
to reach out,
to heal from deep within.
So share your tales of sorrow...
laugh with me, cry with me
for nothing is worse than feeling alone
and come along as we share this voyage,
wherever it may go.
- Andrea Scatuccio

PESONAL NOTE: Thanks to Penny, our newest Rosebud II member, for sharing this inspirational poem. We encourage the rest of our readers to contribute their poetry for future posts, as well. Please send to: thepinkcrusader1@aol.com.

DAILY REMINDER: "Fund Free Mammograms"
Go to The Breast Cancer Site at http://www.thebreastcancersite.com/tpc/EEB_0115_BCSm
and help fund free mammograms for the homeless, working-poor, and un-insured women. It costs nothing to you, except one daily click on the pink "Fund Free Mammograms" button. You can even request automatic reminders via e-mail. Please make your free click now, and thanks for your continuing support! The Breast Cancer Site, One Union Square, 600 University Street, Suite 1000, Seattle, WA 98101
Phone: 1-888-811-5271

UPCOMING EVENTS: Mark Your Calendars!

"Brushes with Greatness"
The University of Texas M.D. Anderson Cancer Center
teams up with Saks Fifth Avenue, April 12, 2007 6:30-8:30pm
Ticket Price $25.00* For more info: bsmp@mdanderson.org
(Guests will receive $25 gift card to be used for cosmetics)
*A percentage of sales will benefit the
Beth Sanders Moore Young Breast Cancer Survivor's Program
at The University of Texas M.D. Anderson Cancer Center

Susan's Rally Golf Tournament
in the fight against breast cancer
Monday, April 16 281-480-7744
3820 San Jacinto, Houston TX 77004
www.susanrally.org

Relay for Life of Cy Fair College
American Cancer Society Overnight Event
April 27 & 28, 2007, 7:00pm - 7:00am
www.acsevents.org/cyfair for info & registration

Breast Cancer: Its Effect on Spouses & Others
Saturday, April 28, 2007
M.D. Anderson Cancer Center
The Beth Sanders Moore Young Breast Cancer Survivor's Program
www.mdanderson.org/youngbreastsurvivor
Email: bsmp@mdanderson.org

Susan's Rally
Sunday, April 29
For info: 713-526-2747
www.susanrally.org

The National Breast Cancer Coalition/Fund
2007 Annual Advocacy Training Conference(NBCC)

"Beyond Ribbons to Revolution"
April 28 - May 1, 2007
Hyatt Regency Crystal City, Arlington, VA
703-418-1234
Conference Contact: The Event Professionals
Email:nbccinfo@theeventpros.net 678-502-1454

The 2nd Annual Cancer Patient & Caregiver Conference
Friday, May 4, 2007. Registration:9:00am
Program begins at 9:30am-2:30pm.
Dr Michael Keating from MD Anderson will be the keynote speaker.
Location: United Way Building 50 Waugh Drive.
To Register: 713-520-9873 Contact Person: Elizabeth Wilson
www.cancercouseling.info

Relay For Life of Angelina County
American Cancer Society
May 4th & 5th, 2007
Lufkin Middle School

Relay For Life® is a fun-filled overnight event designed to bring together those who have been touched by cancer in our community. At the event, we celebrate survivorship and raise money to help the American Cancer Society in its mission to save lives, help those who have been touched by cancer, and empower individuals to fight back.
http://www.acsevents.org/angelina/positivepinkdynamite

Walk to Empower
3-Mile walk, Sunday, May 13, 2007
MacGregor Park, Houston, Tx 9:00am
Y-ME National Breast Cancer Organization
No Fee Register online at www.y-me.org

The Alice Thomsen Lymphedema Awareness Group of Houston
Meetings are scheduled on the 3rd Tuesday of every other month at the American cancer Society Building,6301 Richmond (between Hillcroft and Fountainview) at 7:00pm. The 2007 dates are May 15th, July 17th, September 18 and November 20th.
For further information call 281-546-6438.

CanCare Survivors Day Luncheon
Date: Thursday, May 31, 2007
For More Info: patwh@cancare.org
As most of you know our Survivors Day Luncheon will be held on Thursday, May 31 at the Intercontinental Hotel. Our luncheon event is a wonderful way to honor friends, family and employees who are cancer survivors and the medical communities who treat them. Our keynote speaker is Scott Hamilton, who is considered to be the world's most celebrated figure skater. In addition to being a role model and humanitarian, Mr. Hamilton is also a ten-year testicular cancer survivor.

"The Faces behind Breast Cancer" Launch Party
Save the date, Sunday August 26, at 1:00 pm.
Details will be announced in future posts.

Living Fully
M.D. Anderson Annual Conference
September 6-8 2007
Marriott Westchase - Houston, Texas
Additional information is not available at this time.

Tour De Pink 2007
Pink Ribbons Project
September 9, 2007
at Prairie View A&M University
www.tourdepink.org
Additional info in future posts.

"Sharing is Caring"
Posts are updated every Sunday. As always, The Pink Crusader welcomes your comments, stories, poems, and events. Please send your written contributions to thepinkcrusader1@aol.com.

“Never let go of hope. One day you will see that it all has finally come together. What you have always wished for has finally come to be. You will look back and laugh at what has passed and you will ask yourself... 'How did I get through all of that?”
- Unknown


Until next week, Stay strong, stay well, and keep on dancing with hope in your heart.
SmileyCentral.com
Love, Josie
The Pink Crusader
thepinkcrusader1@aol.com

Sunday, March 18, 2007

Acceptance, Denial & Sublimation

Dear Blogger Family & Friends,

Welcome, welcome, welcome. Big hugs all around to each and every one of you.Hope you had a happy St. Paddy's Day.....whether you were guzzling green beer in a local pub, or sharing corned beef and a movie in the midst of a pre-Spring blizzard. I personally enjoyed an evening of good food, company, and conversation with the lovely lasses from our SOS support group. And, on the other end of the coast, my son and girlfriend were playing planes, trains and automobiles in an attempt to get from Seattle to Philadelphia....a little more adventure than they bargained for, but a memorable Spring Break none-the-less.

"We can only lie to ourselves for so long. We are tired, we are scared. Denying it doesn't change the truth. Sooner or later we have to put aside our denial and face the world....Head on, guns blazing.
De Nile. It's not just a river in Egypt, it's a freakin' ocean! So, how do you keep from drowning in it?"
-Meredith Grey (Grey's Anatomy)

Did you ever have one of those days, weeks, or life when you find it increasingly difficult to focus on the issues at hand (family, work, money, health, relationships, etc.), and dream of being invisible?.....Nothing could see you, touch you, penetrate or hurt you? Let's face it, who doesn't prefer to get lost in fantasy rather than face the truth head on. Sometimes it's easier to run for cover, rather than fight the proverbial two-headed monster.

If we deny our problems, no matter how inflated, we are basically denying the truth. Smoke screens only make it all the more difficult to accept our situations and find resolutions. You can't fix what you won't admit is broken. The real questions you should be asking are, "What are my fears......and how can I bring stability back to my life?" How you feel and choose to handle the realities of your life can strongly influence what happens tomorrow, however slow the process.

During a recent visit to Ohio, my dad (a.k.a. Papa Bear),and I, were sitting at the kitchen table discussing acceptance, denial and *sublimation. You know, just your average dinner conversation......I invited him to contribute his thoughts to the Pink Crusader blog spot and he kindly agreed. So, this week I am proud to share some words of wisdom from my beloved father.

Papa Bear writes:
Josie, I have been reading all your posts and following with interest the various forms of sublimation (not denial for sure) you have been using to deal with the new reality of your life. Doing something positive for ourselves and others, when our soul is in pain, is the essence of the wisdom of the ages, and is the stuff that **Eros is made of. If you keep structuring your life with the right balance of dreams and reality, you will get excellent results.
- Saverio Caruso, M.D.

Personal Note: Thanks Dad! Not only are you my intellectual and spiritual advisor, but you remain one of the truly great Renaissance men. I know many people will benefit from your encouraging words. God Bless You!

*Sublimation is the transformation of unwanted impulses into something less harmful. When we are faced with the dissonance of uncomfortable thoughts, we create psychic energy. This has to go somewhere. Sublimation channels this energy away from destructive acts and into something that is socially acceptable and/or creatively effective. Sublimation is probably the most useful and constructive of the defense mechanisms as it takes the energy of something that is potentially harmful and turns it to doing something good and useful.
Source: www.google.com

**Throughout Greek mythology, there appear to be two sides to the conception of Eros; in the first, he is a primeval deity who embodies not only the force of erotic love but also the creative urge of ever-flowing nature. In the second version, Eros is the firstborn Light that is responsible for the coming into being and ordering of all things in the cosmos. Source: www.google.com

DAILY REMINDER: "Fund Free Mammograms"
Go to The Breast Cancer Site at http://www.thebreastcancersite.com/tpc/EEB_0115_BCSm
and help fund free mammograms for the homeless, working-poor, and un-insured women. It costs nothing to you, except one daily click on the pink "Fund Free Mammograms" button. You can even request automatic reminders via e-mail. Please make your free click now, and thanks for your continuing support! The Breast Cancer Site, One Union Square, 600 University Street, Suite 1000, Seattle, WA 98101
Phone: 1-888-811-5271

UPCOMING EVENTS:

Free Massage Session for People Living with Cancer
March 21, 22, 23, 2007, 10:30 am - 12:00 pm
Houston Community College, by appointment only
Contact Deborah Kelly, Massage Therapy Program Director
713-718-7389 or deborah.kelly@hccs.edu

Rosebuds II Meeting
Thursday, March 22, 2007
5:45 p.m. - 7:30 p.m.

Pink Lemonade Guild Plate Painting
Pink Ribbons Project
Guild members and family only
Sunday, March 25, 3:00-5:00pm
PICNIK Restaurant, 1928 Bissonnet

"Brushes with Greatness"
The University of Texas M.D. Anderson Cancer Center
teams up with Saks Fifth Avenue, April 12, 2007 6:30-8:30pm
Ticket Price $25.00* For more info: bsmp@mdanderson.org
(Guests will receive $25 gift card to be used for cosmetics)
*A percentage of sales will benefit the
Beth Sanders Moore Young Breast Cancer Survivor's Program
at The University of Texas M.D. Anderson Cancer Center

Susan's Rally Golf Tournament
in the fight against breast cancer
Monday, April 16 281-480-7744
3820 San Jacinto, Houston TX 77004
www.susanrally.org

Relay for Life of Cy Fair College
American Cancer Society Overnight Event
April 27 & 28, 2007, 7:00pm - 7:00am
www.acsevents.org/cyfair for info & registration

Breast Cancer: Its Effect on Spouses & Others
Saturday, April 28, 2007
M.D. Anderson Cancer Center
The Beth Sanders Moore Young Breast Cancer Survivor's Program
www.mdanderson.org/youngbreastsurvivor
Email: bsmp@mdanderson.org

Susan's Rally
Sunday, April 29
For info: 713-526-2747
www.susanrally.org

The National Breast Cancer Coalition/Fund
2007 Annual Advocacy Training Conference(NBCC)

"Beyond Ribbons to Revolution"
April 28 - May 1, 2007
Hyatt Regency Crystal City, Arlington, VA
703-418-1234
Conference Contact: The Event Professionals
Email:nbccinfo@theeventpros.net 678-502-1454

The 2nd Annual Cancer Patient & Caregiver Conference
Friday, May 4, 2007. Registration:9:00am
Program begins at 9:30am-2:30pm.
Dr Michael Keating from MD Anderson will be the keynote speaker.
Location: United Way Building 50 Waugh Drive.
To Register: 713-520-9873 Contact Person: Elizabeth Wilson
www.cancercouseling.info

Relay For Life of Angelina County
American Cancer Society
May 4th & 5th, 2007
Lufkin Middle School

Relay For Life® is a fun-filled overnight event designed to bring together those who have been touched by cancer in our community. At the event, we celebrate survivorship and raise money to help the American Cancer Society in its mission to save lives, help those who have been touched by cancer, and empower individuals to fight back.
http://www.acsevents.org/angelina/positivepinkdynamite

Walk to Empower
3-Mile walk, Sunday, May 13, 2007
MacGregor Park, Houston, Tx 9:00am
Y-ME National Breast Cancer Organization
No Fee Register online at www.y-me.org

The Alice Thomsen Lymphedema Awareness Group of Houston
Meetings are scheduled on the 3rd Tuesday of every other month at the American cancer Society Building,6301 Richmond (between Hillcroft and Fountainview) at 7:00pm. The 2007 dates are May 15th, July 17th, September 18 and November 20th.
For further information call 281-546-6438.

"The Faces behind Breast Cancer" Launch Party
Save the date, Sunday August 26, at 1:00 pm.
Details will be announced in future posts.

Living Fully
M.D. Anderson Annual Conference
September 6-8 2007
Marriott Westchase - Houston, Texas
Additional information is not available at this time.

Tour De Pink 2007
Pink Ribbons Project
September 9, 2007
at Prairie View A&M University
www.tourdepink.org
Additional info in future posts.

"Sharing is Caring"
Posts are updated every Sunday. As always, The Pink Crusader welcomes your comments, stories, poems, and events. Please send your written contributions to thepinkcrusader1@aol.com.

"Self-acceptance comes from meeting life's challenges vigorously. Don't numb yourself to your trials and difficulties, nor build mental walls to exclude pain from your life. You will find peace not by trying to escape your problems, but by confronting them courageously. You will find peace not in denial, but in victory."
-J. Donald Walters

Until next week, stay strong, stay well, and keep on dancing in the real world!
SmileyCentral.com

Love, Josie
The Pink Crusader
thepinkcrusader1@aol.com

Sunday, March 11, 2007

Did I Miss Something?

Dear Blogger Family and Friends,

This week, as with every week, I greet you with a warm welcome and BIG hug! Hope you are all doing well and feeling fit,fabulous, and fantastic!

"By labor we can find food and water, but all of our labor will not find for us another hour."
-Kenneth Patton

What a difference a day makes....especially when you are short-changed by one hour! Nothing like a dose of daylight savings time to rattle your system. Stick your face into a bowl of ice water and you'll get the same effect. Shock therapy! I know there is a logical explanation behind this disruptive process, but my brain won't buy it. And, once my body gets in sync, it will be time to re-adjust the clocks again!

On the practical side, when was the last time you took inventory of the number of clocks in your home...including watches, VCR's, oven, microwave, computer and car. It takes time to adjust time!

Some of you may think I'm over-stating my case, but as a cancer survivor I have an acute awareness and appreciation of the ticking clock. Time is precious, but it is not my friend. I live my life moment to moment...day to day, and squeeze as much as I can between sunrise to sunset. There is no luxury of looking too far into the future nor the luxury of procrastinating to complete a task at hand. Times a wastin' and nothing is going to break my stride....not even daylight savings time!

Moving on, this week I would like to pass on some light reading, compliments of my good friend Rosemary Herron. This is not only funny, but a good incentive to turn back time....Enjoy!

I OWE MY MOTHER (& some of these I OWE MY FATHER, TOO!)

1. My mother taught me TO APPRECIATE A JOB WELL DONE.
"If you're going to kill each other, do it outside. I just finished cleaning."

2. My mother taught me RELIGION.
"You better pray that will come out of the carpet."

3. My mother taught me about TIME TRAVEL.
"If you don't straighten up, I'm going to knock you into the middle of next week!"

4. My mother taught me LOGIC.
" Because I said so, that's why."

5. My mother taught me MORE LOGIC.
"If you fall out of that swing and break your neck, you're not going to the store with me."

6. My mother taught me FORESIGHT.
"Make sure you wear clean underwear, in case you're in an accident."

7. My mother taught me IRONY.
"Keep crying, and I'll give you something to cry about."

8. My mother taught me about the science of OSMOSIS.
"Shut your mouth and eat your supper."

9. My mother taught me about CONTORTIONISM.
"Will you look at that dirt on the back of your neck!"

10. My mother taught me about STAMINA.
"You'll sit there until all that spinach is gone."

11. My mother taught me about WEATHER.
"This room of yours looks as if a tornado went through it."

12 My mother taught me about HYPOCRISY.
"If I told you once, I've told you a million times. Don't exaggerate!"

13. My mother taught me the CIRCLE OF LIFE.
"I brought you into this world, and I can take you out."

14. My mother taught me about BEHAVIOR MODIFICATION.
"Stop acting like your father!"

15. My mother taught me about ENVY.
"There are millions of less fortunate children in this world who don't have wonderful parents like you do."

16. My mother taught me about ANTICIPATION.
"Just wait until we get home."

17. My mother taught me about RECEIVING.
"You are going to get it when you get home!"

18. My mother taught me MEDICAL SCIENCE.
"If you don't stop crossing your eyes, they are going to freeze that way."

19. My mother taught me ESP.
"Put your sweater on; don't you think I know when you are cold?"

20. My mother taught me HUMOR.
"When that lawn mower cuts off your toes, don't come running to me."

21. My mother taught me HOW TO BECOME AN ADULT.
"If you don't eat your vegetables, you'll never grow up."

22. My mother taught me GENETICS.
"You're just like your father."

23. My mother taught me about my ROOTS.
"Shut that door behind you. Do you think you were born in a barn?"

24. My mother taught me WISDOM.
"When you get to be my age, you'll understand."

25. And my favorite: My mother taught me about JUSTICE.
"One day you'll have kids, and I hope they turn out just like you!"

PERSONAL NOTE: Thank you, Rosemary, for your humorous contribution to this week's blog post. As always, I encourage all of our readers to pass along their stories, poetry, comments and events to The Pink Crusader. Just e-mail your information to thepinkcrusader1@aol.com. Posts are updated every Sunday.

DAILY REMINDER: "Fund Free Mammograms"
Go to The Breast Cancer Site at http://www.thebreastcancersite.com/tpc/EEB_0115_BCSm
and help fund free mammograms for the homeless, working-poor, and un-insured women. It costs nothing to you, except one daily click on the pink "Fund Free Mammograms" button. You can even request automatic reminders via e-mail. Please make your free click now, and thanks for your continuing support! The Breast Cancer Site, One Union Square, 600 University Street, Suite 1000, Seattle, WA 98101
Phone: 1-888-811-5271

UPCOMING EVENTS:

SHOP for a CAUSE
Macy's has again selected The Rose to participate in their SHOP for a CAUSE campaign, on Saturday, March 17th from 9 a.m. to 10 p.m. By making a $5 donation to The Rose, participants will receive an all-day 20% or 15% off shopping pass, $10 off a $20 purchase or more coupon, and a chance to win a $500 shopping spree. The passes are good at ANY MACY'S. There are 1,500 passes available. If you are interested in helping, please contact Kristi Brown, Special Events Coordinator
The Rose- 12700 N. Featherwood, Ste. 260, Houston, TX 77034
(281) 464-5142 direct
(281) 464-2743 fax
www.the-rose.org

The Alice Thomsen Lymphedema Awareness Group of Houston
Meetings are scheduled on the 3rd Tuesday of every other month at the American cancer Society Building,6301 Richmond (between Hillcroft and Fountainview) at 7:00pm. The 2007 dates are March 20th, May 15th, July 17th, September 18 and November 20th.
For further information call 281-546-6438.

Free Massage Session for People Living with Cancer
March 21, 22, 23, 2007, 10:30 am - 12:00 pm
Houston Community College, by appointment only
Contact Deborah Kelly, Massage Therapy Program Director
713-718-7389 or deborah.kelly@hccs.edu

Pink Lemonade Guild Plate Painting
Pink Ribbons Project
Guild members and family only
Sunday, March 25, 3:00-5:00pm
PICNIK Restaurant, 1928 Bissonnet

"Brushes with Greatness"
The University of Texas M.D. Anderson Cancer Center
teams up with Saks Fifth Avenue, April 12, 2007 6:30-8:30pm
Ticket Price $25.00* For more info: bsmp@mdanderson.org
(Guests will receive $25 gift card to be used for cosmetics)
*A percentage of sales will benefit the
Beth Sanders Moore Young Breast Cancer Survivor's Program
at The University of Texas M.D. Anderson Cancer Center

Susan's Rally Golf Tournament
in the fight against breast cancer
Monday, April 16 281-480-7744
3820 San Jacinto, Houston TX 77004
www.susanrally.org

Relay for Life of Cy Fair College
American Cancer Society Overnight Event
April 27 & 28, 2007, 7:00pm - 7:00am
www.acsevents.org/cyfair for info & registration

Susan's Rally
Sunday, April 29
For info: 713-526-2747
www.susanrally.org

The National Breast Cancer Coalition/Fund
2007 Annual Advocacy Training Conference(NBCC)

"Beyond Ribbons to Revolution"
April 28 - May 1, 2007
Hyatt Regency Crystal City, Arlington, VA
703-418-1234
Conference Contact: The Event Professionals
Email:nbccinfo@theeventpros.net 678-502-1454

The 2nd Annual Cancer Patient & Caregiver Conference
Friday, May 4, 2007. Registration:9:00am
Program begins at 9:30am-2:30pm.
Dr Michael Keating from MD Anderson will be the keynote speaker.
Location: United Way Building 50 Waugh Drive.
To Register: 713-520-9873 Contact Person: Elizabeth Wilson
www.cancercouseling.info

Relay For Life of Angelina County
American Cancer Society
May 4th & 5th, 2007
Lufkin Middle School

Relay For Life® is a fun-filled overnight event designed to bring together those who have been touched by cancer in our community. At the event, we celebrate survivorship and raise money to help the American Cancer Society in its mission to save lives, help those who have been touched by cancer, and empower individuals to fight back.
http://www.acsevents.org/angelina/positivepinkdynamite

Walk to Empower
3-Mile walk, Sunday, May 13, 2007
MacGregor Park, Houston, Tx 9:00am
Y-ME National Breast Cancer Organization
No Fee Register online at www.y-me.org

"The Faces behind Breast Cancer" Launch Party
Save the date, Sunday August 26, at 1:00 pm.
Details will be announced in future posts.

Living Fully
M.D. Anderson Annual Conference
September 6-8 2007
Marriott Westchase - Houston, Texas
Additional information is not available at this time.

Tour De Pink 2007
Pink Ribbons Project
September 9, 2007
at Prairie View A&M University
www.tourdepink.org
Additional info in future posts.

"Time is a companion that goes with us on a journey. It reminds us to cherish each moment, because it will never come again. What we leave behind is not as important as how we have lived."
- Captain Jean-Luc Picard (Star Trek)

Until next week, stay strong, stay well, and keep on dancing as if there was no tomorrow! Happy St. Patrick's Day!

SmileyCentral.com

Love, Josie
The Pink Crusader
thepinkcrusader1@aol.com

Sunday, March 4, 2007

Stepping out of My Skin

Dear Blogger Family and Friends,

A big hug and warm welcome from the snowy hills of Northeastern Ohio! The Pink Crusader finally reunited with family and friends in the Midwest, following eight long months of cancer treatment. There is nothing like the love and support of family and friends to help ease you back into the real world. What could be better than familiar faces, sights, sounds and smells....all wrapped up in one beautiful homecoming package. It may be a simple view from where I sit, but never-the-less, I feel like I'm sitting on top of the world!

"Happiness is having a large, loving, caring, close-knit family in another city."
-George Burns

I was inspired to write this post today, following a conversation with my youngest sister, Cindy. We were sharing a good laugh over the state of my barely-there-hair, when she remarked, "After all you've been through, it must be nice to leave the cancer bubble and step outside your skin." She was right. Metaphorically speaking, it is the equivalent thrill of putting on a brand new outfit after living in worn pajamas and fatigued hospital gowns for the better part of a year....it feels good and looks marvelous! I am happy! In fact, I'm happy on top of happy! I'm so happy, I'm doing cartwheels in the snow! I'm so happy it should be illegal! In other words,
I'm H-A-P-P-Y!!!!!!!!!

Special thanks to Papa Bear, my brother, sisters, and gallery of friends who never made me feel like a victim, or any less than the person I strive to be. I have faced the front line, and fought for this happy reunion. P.S. Hey Larry, thanks for the home-made venison chili! It was hot enough to kill mosquitoes, but very tasty!

On that note, I would like to move along to a beautiful poem written by my friend, and guest contributor, Cheryl Donlin.

Aloneness
(Newly-diagnosed)

The silence beats upon my mind
fanning out in waves of
tone on tone.

It echoes in my heart and ricochets
spilling out in toneless sighs
of soul-song.

Shattering what was and reforging
who and what and how
I am.

-Anna Lucile Dunn & Cheryl P. Donlin


PERSONAL NOTE: Thank you, Cheryl, for sharing such touching words that others may benefit from your personal journey. I know your poem evoked many emotions, and is especially poignant because it was written in collaboration with your late mother. What a loving tribute to her, as well.

DAILY REMINDER: "Fund Free Mammograms"
Go to The Breast Cancer Site at http://www.thebreastcancersite.com/tpc/EEB_0115_BCSm
and help fund free mammograms for the homeless, working-poor, and un-insured women. It costs nothing to you, except one daily click on the pink "Fund Free Mammograms" button. You can even request automatic reminders via e-mail. Please make your free click now, and thanks for your continuing support! The Breast Cancer Site, One Union Square, 600 University Street, Suite 1000, Seattle, WA 98101
Phone: 1-888-811-5271

Take One Minute to Help Others
This is a simple and helpful thing we can all do.

You probably have never thought of this, but women's shelters in the U.S. go through thousands of tampons and pads monthly. Assistance agencies generally help with expenses of "everyday" necessities such as toilet paper, diapers, and clothing, but one of the most BASIC needs is overlooked - feminine hygiene products. (Who is at the helm of the funding assistance agencies anyway!?)

Seventh Generation, a green paper products and cleaning products company, has a do-good attitude and will donate a box of sanitary products to a women's shelter in your chosen state - just for clicking the link. Talk about easy (literally takes less than 1 minute and they ask nothing of you). And, yes, it is legitimate!

http://www.tampontification.com/donate.php

UPCOMING EVENTS:

Rosebuds
Breast Cancer Support Group Meeting
Tuesday evening, March 6, 2007
5:45 - 7:30 pm

PAINT THE rodeo PINK!FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE
March 6, 2007 — Houston Livestock Show and Rodeo™ officials are encouraging Houstonians and visitors alike to “Paint the Rodeo Pink!” Wednesday, March 7, in support of Breast Cancer Awareness. Sheryl Crow is performing that day after having to cancel in 2006 due to breast cancer surgery.

Breast Cancer Awareness materials will be available at the Houston Livestock Show and Rodeo, provided by the Susan G. Komen for the Cure Houston Affiliate, a global leader in the fight against breast cancer through its support of innovative research and community-based outreach programs.

Tickets are still available for the Wednesday, March 7, performance.
The Houston Livestock Show and Rodeo runs now through March 18. Tickets can be purchased at Ticketmaster outlets, including Reliant Park, by phone at 800.726.1313, and online at www.rodeohouston.com.

Rosebuds II Meeting
Thursday evening, March 8, 2007
5:45 - 7:30 pm

SHOP for a CAUSE
Macy's has again selected The Rose to participate in their SHOP for a CAUSE campaign, on Saturday, March 17th from 9 a.m. to 10 p.m. By making a $5 donation to The Rose, participants will receive an all-day 20% or 15% off shopping pass, $10 off a $20 purchase or more coupon, and a chance to win a $500 shopping spree. The passes are good at ANY MACY'S. There are 1,500 passes available. If you are interested in helping, please contact Kristi Brown, Special Events Coordinator
The Rose- 12700 N. Featherwood, Ste. 260, Houston, TX 77034
(281) 464-5142 direct
(281) 464-2743 fax
www.the-rose.org

The Alice Thomsen Lymphedema Awareness Group of Houston
Meetings are scheduled on the 3rd Tuesday of every other month at the American cancer Society Building,6301 Richmond (between Hillcroft and Fountainview) at 7:00pm. The 2007 dates are March 20th, May 15th, July 17th, September 18 and November 20th.
For further information call 281-546-6438.

Pink Lemonade Guild Plate Painting
Pink Ribbons Project
Guild members and family only
Sunday, March 25, 3:00-5:00pm
PICNIK Restaurant, 1928 Bissonnet

"Brushes with Greatness"
The University of Texas M.D. Anderson Cancer Center
teams up with Saks Fifth Avenue, April 12, 2007 6:30-8:30pm
Ticket Price $25.00* For more info: bsmp@mdanderson.org
(Guests will receive $25 gift card to be used for cosmetics)
*A percentage of sales will benefit the
Beth Sanders Moore Young Breast Cancer Survivor's Program
at The University of Texas M.D. Anderson Cancer Center

Susan's Rally Golf Tournament
in the fight against breast cancer
Monday, April 16 281-480-7744
3820 San Jacinto, Houston TX 77004
www.susanrally.org

Susan's Rally
Sunday, April 29
For info: 713-526-2747
www.susanrally.org

The National Breast Cancer Coalition/Fund
2007 Annual Advocacy Training Conference(NBCC)

"Beyond Ribbons to Revolution"
April 28 - May 1, 2007
Hyatt Regency Crystal City, Arlington, VA
703-418-1234
Conference Contact: The Event Professionals
Email:nbccinfo@theeventpros.net 678-502-1454

The 2nd Annual Cancer Patient & Caregiver Conference
Friday, May 4, 2007. Registration:9:00am
Program begins at 9:30am-2:30pm.
Dr Michael Keating from MD Anderson will be the keynote speaker.
Location: United Way Building 50 Waugh Drive.
To Register: 713-520-9873 Contact Person: Elizabeth Wilson
www.cancercouseling.info
4101 Greenbriar, Ste 317, Houston, TX 77098.

Walk to Empower
3-Mile walk, Sunday, May 13, 2007
MacGregor Park, Houston, Tx 9:00am
Y-ME National Breast Cancer Organization
No Fee Register online at www.y-me.org

"The Faces behind Breast Cancer" Launch Party
Save the date, Sunday August 26, at 1:00 pm.
Details will be announced in future posts.

Living Fully
M.D. Anderson Annual Conference
September 6-8 2007
Marriott Westchase - Houston, Texas
Additional information is not available at this time.

Tour De Pink 2007
Pink Ribbons Project
September 9, 2007
at Prairie View A&M University
www.tourdepink.org
Additional info in future posts.

Play time is over. As always, I encourage you to pass along your stories, comments and events to The Pink Crusader, and look forward to hearing from you.

"Happiness is nothing more than good health and a bad memory."
-Albert Schweitzer

Until next week, stay strong, stay well, and keep on dancing (and doing cartwheels in the snow)!
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Love, Josie
The Pink Crusader
thepinkcrusader1@aol.com